Almost every contested family law matter – divorce, child custody, CPS, termination of parental rights, paternity – ends up in mediation before a final trial. Most, if not all, courts in Dallas County and Collin County require mediation before a final trial.
Mediation involves a neutral mediator – often an attorney but it does not have to be – who tries to help facilitate a settlement. Normally, one party and her attorney are in one room and the other party and his attorney are in another. The mediator goes back and forth between the rooms to try and reach a settlement. Most of the time, I never even see the opposing party or that party’s attorney at the mediation.
Before I attend mediation with a client, I always prepare a confidential mediation statement that sets forth our side of the story for the mediator. This helps save time at mediation. Often times, I have found that the other side does not prepare a mediation statement. I feel this gives my client a great advantage, as the mediator is starting the case with just our side of the story.
The vast majority of cases settle at mediation. I have taken many cases to mediation that I thought could not be settled, and they have settled the majority of the time. Even if a final settlement does not get reached, the parties can settle some of the issues to narrow down the issues for trial.